On Connection, Compatibility and Complications (a.k.a LOVE)
After watching The Family Stone (which of course qualifies as hard evidence, as all other work done by Sarah Jessica Parker.....) I feel more than ever that the infamous connection hitherto referred to numerous times is more problematic than what is normally accepted.
Some people just immediately bring out the best in you. Kind of like putting their hands down your throat and literally pulling the potential out of you. And then you just shine together. These are the couples that everybody else hates. They are in perfect compatibility just because they are both fulfilling their destiny with the help of the other.
Others just find someone that accepts them.
Acception can really be a bad word. It means no demands, but also no room for improvement; no pressure to better oneself. These couples are the one that slide apart after some time; yearning to do all those things they once dreamed about doing, but never did. Simply cause nobody was there, nagging, pushing and encouraging. Instead they spent their days comfortably in front of their TV, telling each other what a great life they had. Until it was no longer true.
Now, I know things are not black or white. And there are loads of middle scenarios in this picture, but it's late, I am tired and frankly, it would undermine my analysis and conclusion.
So, not only must we find a person that we care for, like and possibly love. We must also make sure that person has somewhat reciprocal feelings towards ourselves. Thereafter it is advisable to invest the effect this person has on your own personality. Are you being your real self?Do you keep some sides hidden? Are you coming out of your shell?
While one person might bring out the dullest possible version of you; his best friend might be able to teach you how to follow the rainbow to find the treasure.
- Isn't it GRAND?
Some people just immediately bring out the best in you. Kind of like putting their hands down your throat and literally pulling the potential out of you. And then you just shine together. These are the couples that everybody else hates. They are in perfect compatibility just because they are both fulfilling their destiny with the help of the other.
Others just find someone that accepts them.
Acception can really be a bad word. It means no demands, but also no room for improvement; no pressure to better oneself. These couples are the one that slide apart after some time; yearning to do all those things they once dreamed about doing, but never did. Simply cause nobody was there, nagging, pushing and encouraging. Instead they spent their days comfortably in front of their TV, telling each other what a great life they had. Until it was no longer true.
Now, I know things are not black or white. And there are loads of middle scenarios in this picture, but it's late, I am tired and frankly, it would undermine my analysis and conclusion.
So, not only must we find a person that we care for, like and possibly love. We must also make sure that person has somewhat reciprocal feelings towards ourselves. Thereafter it is advisable to invest the effect this person has on your own personality. Are you being your real self?Do you keep some sides hidden? Are you coming out of your shell?
While one person might bring out the dullest possible version of you; his best friend might be able to teach you how to follow the rainbow to find the treasure.
- Isn't it GRAND?
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